The child desires. cries cries. The insistence on toys, the insistence on new clothes, the insistence on not studying, the insistence on doing the work you like. And you are upset. I do not understand what to do.
annoyed with desire
The parents get so annoyed by his insistence, they get so fed up that they start beating him. Every now and again the child gets beaten up. The child does not give up. Neither the parents stop screaming at him, nor stop beating him. In this situation the child grows up. And stubborn and arrogant.
fear of being killed
I have seen the child who gets killed every day at the hands of the father, how much he is afraid of being killed. My neighbor's child kills every day. Sometimes on something, sometimes on something. That day at noon he was under a mango tree. There was a fallen mango bin. Then his father saw him. Oh shout at him. He also growled and said "I will not come". His father ran to kill him. The boy ran away. After sometime I asked the boy that "If you go home, your father will kill you a lot". The boy said, "Will you not kill my life, I kill you every day".
Same thing happens. The fear of getting killed from the mind of the child ends, it is difficult to improve it.
who is stubborn
See from my point of view, who is stubborn? If a child insists on toys, insists on new clothes, insists not to study, and also insists on doing the work he likes, then what bad does it do? commits a crime?
You do this as well. We all do. Of course we do not insist on toys. But we want to do what we love. We want to achieve what we like. We work hard for that. Until you achieve it, you do not feel like it. remain restless. That is the desire.
different likes
The difference is that the choice of both is different. We like to take a car, we like to take a bungalow. He is a child, he likes toys, clothes. Everyone likes to play in childhood. No one likes to read. That's what the child is doing. He is doing his childishly.
way different
If there is a big insistence, then the way of insisting on them and the way of achieving Vastu is different. Children's approach is different. He also wants to do his favorite thing. Wants to get something he likes. But his method remains childlike. The way of the elders like the elders.
get out of mind
It is not the children to improve, you have to improve. Forget that your child insists. Understand that O child behaves easily. For this you stop shouting, beating him to die.
fulfill a legitimate desire
Fulfill the legitimate insistence of the child. Love him very much. Talk a lot so that anything can be said to you. You should not be afraid of him. You will see, there will come a time when you will crave that my child will ask me for something. Make a wish One day he will fulfill your wish and you will not even have to insist.
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