who is your own ?

 Who is your own?

         Very simple question, who is yours? This question haunts my mind again and again. Does this question ever haunts your mind?

 all is yours

       You would say that parents, siblings, friends, relatives are all yours. Absolutely right. It's all yours. What does it take to try it? But even trying will not do anything. It all depends on time. When are all these people yours? Only time will tell when you will become alienated. Right now I just want to talk about my brother.

 What happens in a joint family?

As I see. In a joint family, grandparents, uncles, aunts, siblings all live together. There is a very good harmony. If there are two or three brothers, then one brother stays in the village to take care of the house and the rest of the brothers go out to earn. They get jobs in cities. Some may also be in government service.

 When does the problem happen?

      The problem starts when there is a division of the house. The distribution of the property in the village, house becomes equal. But the people who earn in cities and the wealth they build there are not divided. Their reasoning is that I have made it with my earnings.

There is a house, there is a car, there is a plot. Everything happens in his name. In that they are not ready to give share to other brothers. Now it is necessary to know about the brother who lives in the village.

 an unemployed boy

        The brother who stays in the village takes care of the house. He is actually unemployed. Despite being educated. Because there are no means of employment in the villages. Earning is a different matter. He definitely earns. But monthly income is not fixed. Payment is not received.

He has to discharge all the responsibilities in the village. To do farming, to treat someone when they are sick, to take care of old parents and get treatment. To be involved in the sorrows and happiness of relatives etc. Take care of the comfort of the brothers who come from their cities to their villages. When their children get married, take the responsibility of all the work on their heads. Because there is no one in the village to know him. Then they are not even aware of the environment here. Therefore, all the work has to be done by the brother who lives in the village.

Responsibility of brother living in the city

         When there is a problem in the village, when a support is needed, then the answer of the brother of the city is that there is no holiday, I will not be able to come home. When money is needed, the answer is, I am in a lot of trouble. Have to pay the fee of the children, I will not be able to send money. That's the only responsibility they have. After that they are relieved of responsibility.

        The one who has a problem on his head, he has to handle it in any situation and that is the brother living in the village.

 at the time of division

       Even these earning brothers have a big hand in dividing the house. Even it has been seen that they do not agree to keep their parents with them. By dividing and taking his property, he ends most contacts. Talking, eating, drinking, speaking all end. Live your life happily. They do not give anything from their wealth and throw their brother who sees everyone into the furnace of poverty.

 not all brothers are like this

        It is not that all brothers do the same thing. There are some exceptions as well. Some brothers also follow the rule of joint family responsibilities. You divide your earning property equally. They also share in the property of their cities. Such brothers deserve salute.