I live in a house where I have many rooms. There are many bedrooms. All the rooms are successful. Everyone has their own needs according to their needs. All the rooms are taken care of by the members of the household. All the members take care of the rooms of the house.
But two rooms of the house are locked. Why is this closed? just closed. No one works from these two rooms. No one comes and goes in these two rooms. They are not cleaned. If the need of any of these two rooms is not fulfilled, then no member feels any need of these two rooms. Meaning these two rooms are useless in the whole house.
idle room
It is not that these rooms were useless from the beginning. Earlier there was a lot of activity in both these rooms. He used to come and go. Guests were made to sit. Daily cleaning was done. No one could work without him. Those rooms were more lovely than all the rooms were. Those rooms were counted in the main rooms of the house. Both the rooms took care of the members of the house. The members of the house also took care of those two rooms.
But today both those rooms are useless because they are locked. Even today, there are as many members in the house as there were before. Nothing's changed. There was a problem when the locks were closed. Missed those rooms. For a few days the need for those rooms was felt. At times, he had to stop at the door of those rooms. What was the habit of going inside? Had to come back, because the locks on the door were locked. Now slowly the years have passed. Lost the habit. The need for rooms is gone. Those rooms became useless. Even today there are same number of members in the house. But these two rooms are not needed. Everything works without him. Everyone is engrossed in their work. The rest of the rooms which are open, everyone's work goes on. Both those rooms are useless.
prove oneself
There was a lesson in life from this incident. If you are of no use to anyone. So you are useless. There is no point in being you. You are there but no one will need you. Being you means proving yourself. Yes I am I will fulfill the needs of others. I will be of some help. I'll be there for everyone.
If you take care of people, people will also take care of you. If you will come in handy for someone's need, then someone will work for you on your need too. Otherwise you will be isolated from the family and also from the society.
I have a relative. There are many people in that family. Long family. Some people live outside the cities. does job. The officer is Very few people recognise others in the village. Sometimes on the occasion of marriage, there is a coming and going of strangers. Stays for two to four days and then goes away. Those people who live in the countryside for two to four days, either stay inside the house or live outside, then they keep on caressing their small child. Or keep your head stuck in your mobile. No blessings to anyone, no one's condition. Somebody asks what is the condition of the brother? So they shake their heads and say "good". It's done.
live for yourself what to live
And such people complain in their family in their home that no one asks us. I have no respect in the family at home. It's useless to stay here. Where we are is fine, come on. Take your bibi kids and leave.
There is also some reason behind running away from the village. The truth is that when you are not useful to anyone in the family, then your respect is less. They get isolated from the family due to inferiority complex. To hide their shortcomings, they impose blame on others. and leave the house.
What is the use of such a life? To live for yourself what to live? In the spirit of this is mine, you not only lock the lock in your room, but also lock the locks in your mind, your heart, it causes harm instead of profit. Closed room garbage represents the garbage in your mind. o The garbage gets deposited in the brain not in the room. It needs to be cleaned.
some questions to myself
The people locking the room need to ask themselves a few questions. Did someone stop you from going to other rooms of the house? Do you have a lot of valuables in your room? Was any item stolen from your room by the members of the household? Is there any benefit to you from polluting the whole house by collecting garbage in two rooms? Do you give yourself to other people what you aspire to get from them? You need to ask yourself the answers to all these questions.
If the answer is not good, then your thinking, your working method reflects your personality. Everyone knows what you want. Even the gangs know.
You need to clean up the household garbage. The waste of the heart needs to be cleaned up. The waste of the mind needs to be cleared. You need to open the locks of the house. The locks of the heart need to be opened. The locks of the mind need to be opened.
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